women will go on these “niggas ain’t shit” rants over shit they started, they put into motion and problems they caused all the time and black women just eager to shit on black man jump right on in. 

this friend i speak did this exact shit. she was cheating (which i knew about but it was at a time when i was still struggling with the issue of what does one do in a situation like that (do i tell on them or do i keep their secret)) and got caught cheating by her man. her job required that she travel a lot (and i mean a hell of a lot and around the world) so she had a built in excuse to be away and used it to meet with this other dude. in fact thinking about it, she has jumpoff in a few cities around the states where she goes often for work. cool when you’re single but fucked up if you’re with someone who thinks you’re being faithful. so anyway she got caught, her man understandably upset went off on her and left her. she claims it was ugly but i don’t know how it can be when you’re completely in the wrong. you were grown enough to do dirt now be grown enough to deal with the consequences. she got all in her feelings, went on twitter talking “niggas think they own you fucking pigs” and shit. mind you the backstory is that she popped all this off. he had EVERY FUCKING REASON to expect faithfulness from his girlfriend with whom he was in an agreed upon committed relationship so fuck off with the “she didn’t owe him anything” bullshit. so she’s popping off on twitter calling him a “fuck boy” and etc and all these black women (and some non-black too which made it extra fucked up) join in the chorus. “yea fuck them, they don’t deserve us” “i see no lies” “we need to stop dating black men” “trust no niggas” and shit. MIND YOU SHE’S THE CHEATER!!! HE’S COMPLETELY IN THE RIGHT!! however when you’re desperate for opportunities to shit on someone or a group, you’re always ready to jump in no matter what…

now to the black women who do this shit, fuck you. you’re pieces of ripe shit. to the black women who fall for this shit, wake the fuck up. not everyone who screams they are a victim are actually victims. if you feel the need to buy every anti-black male sob story you hear, you have some internalized racism issues to deal with. you’ve got some misandry in your veins and just like i tell black men to handle their fucking misogyny, handle your fucking misandry. 

i mean if i can piggyback another story off this, there was this post with mad notes floating around here with screenshots of anti-black female tweets. the posts was all about how black men hate black women, black women are too good for these niggas and etc. however i saw the post and noticed something odd. so i decided to go look at these actual twitter accounts and guess what? out of the 5 screencaps, one of them was off just a weed leaf. that’s it. that’s what caught my attention. on that twitter account there was ZERO evidence that person was a black male. ZERO! NOTHING. i mean i found the offensive tweet but everything else was just random shit about drugs, women, music and etc. no selfies, no instagram pics of self nothing. oh and another one was a screengrab of… a hispanic dude. again NOT BLACK. yes he posted the offensive tweet but he was not a black dude. so even in their “all black men hate all black women” posts on here, they’re cheating and fucking up. but again, if your aim is to just defame and slander black men, you’ll go through all lengths to make it happen. that’s why i don’t reblog black male bashing shit. i rather write my own shit telling black men to get it together than the regular tumblr fuckery i run into cause 90% of it is shady as fuck. 

*waits for someone to somehow turn this back around into niggas ain’t shit*

*waits for the asshole coming through with the “niggas ain’t shit” argument*

Originally posted by scenesfromaboredmind

Just an FYI, before you tell us how “niggas aint shit” remember:

• Just because a man won’t take you yelling at him like he’s a child in public doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man won’t stand for you slapping him because you didn’t like what he said doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t stand for you telling him he can’t hang with his friends any more because you don’t like them doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t stand for you telling him he can’t talk or hang with his female friends he’s known for years before you came along doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man knows that being forced to spend every free moment with you isn’t what a healthy relationship looks like doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t spend every dime on you doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t bend because he knows when you’re using tears to manipulate him into doing what you want doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t kowtow to your insecurities and give you the password to his phone so you can read all his shit doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man stops fucking with you cause you’re insecure as fuck and thinks he’s always cheating doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t let you ruin his life with your constant making mountains out of molehills self doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man doesn’t want to deal with your backbiting and gossiping on your friends habits doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t put up with your constant flirting with other men doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man knows that your “sex as a weapon” routine is controlling and abusive and bounces on your ass doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit’ 
• Just because a man won’t stop watching sports just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man won’t stand for you disrespecting his family doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
• Just because a man thinks for himself and doesn’t feel like he has to always agree with you cause you two are fucking doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man doesn’t want to deal with your overly materialistic self doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man leaved you because he realizes that you’re fake deep doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man leaved you after catching cheating and doesn’t buy any of your excuses doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man stops messing with your manipulative ass doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man gets sick and tired of you engaging in colorism and leaves doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  
• Just because a man leaved you cause you refuse to learn and exhibit basic manners and decorum doesn’t mean “niggas aint shit”
  

need i go on?

black women keep backing abusive, ignorant black women when they’re attacking black men who won’t put up with their fuckery and then y'all get mad when some say “you know what? fuck black women. i’m out.”

i love black women but every once in a while after i’ve dealt with some black women so ignorant, so hypocritical, so fucked up that i have that thought myself. i just happen to be experienced enough to know that the majority of women are fucked up so the key is finding the healthy mature ones. 

however to the main point of this post, y'all jump on that man hating bandwagon with the quickness and all y’ll doing is support bullshit. then again maybe that’s the point.

#2016fave

This should have more notes…

never going to happen hahaha. 

on tumblr when you call men out on their bullshit, it’s

and

but call out women on their bullshit and it’s…

and

and my personal favorite

black tumblr in many ways and on many topics is totally gutless and the fuckery of black women is one of them. no guts. mind you i expect black women to be hypocrites if it serves a selfish purpose because that’s what humans do but it’s especially fucked up when dudes do it. like have some gotdamn self respect man and stop excusing shit you know black women would NEVER excuse us doing. it does you no good as a fucking man to be up someone’s ass who doesn’t give a fuck about you man.  

i literally had a black woman (a haitian black woman who only proved that i made a great call not fucking with haitian women anymore) on here tell me that the only reason i was making a stink about how bad it is for women to hit men (you know domestic violence) was because i got rejected at a club and wasn’t having enough sex. lmao. can you imagine for a second if i said to a woman the only reason why they had a problem with the images and ideas of men hitting women was because they haven’t had a good dick yet? it would be fucking flames here but hyprocrisy reigns on this bitch and if this is representative of what’s happening offline too (and i believe it is) these “i don’t date black women” dudes maybe have just reasons for their animosity beyond just the easy “they’re just ignorant” or “they’re just coons.” 

so nah, this isn’t the type of post that’s going to get mad notes but i expected that when i made it. 

I’m not trying to be a dick or anything but I don’t know how you can expect women to know the entire backstory of something that they weren’t involved in and haven’t been told about…? If I see a post that says “men suck we deserve better” I’m gonna be like “yeah tru.” The story you told about the girl who cheated and then got all this support… no one that saw her posts knew she cheated. Like I get the issue and all and people who knowingly support shitty women are just as shitty, but the majority of people doing it wouldn’t even know? And you can’t blame them if they have no idea?

Also I can’t exactly put my finger on why but “Just because a man won’t let you ruin his life with your constant making mountains out of molehills self doesn’t mean ‘niggas aint shit’
Just because a man doesn’t want to deal with your backbiting and gossiping on your friends habits doesn’t mean ‘niggas aint shit’” both sound really sexist to me? The first one sounds like you just don’t want someone who’s not neurotypical or you like to exaggerate a lot, and the second one sounds like you have a problem with women who share everything with their friends. Women talk to their friends and this just sounds like you don’t like it so you call it “gossiping.”

And I get the idea behind “Just because a man doesn’t want to deal with your overly materialistic self doesn’t mean ‘niggas aint shit’” but like why do you have to bash women who like shopping and buying nice things?

Then you started talking about some “just because a man leaved you” and I genuinely couldn’t even focus cause that was just……… like second grade, man.

Also???? One woman told you she thought it was okay to hit men so you decided it was okay to avoid all Haitian women????? What the fuck?????

Overall though like I get it, there’s way too many people in the world who think that women can do no wrong and you can’t abuse men and on and on…. but reading this there are so many things that you could’ve just…. not said… or said without totally bashing normal things women do… if i came across this post and didn’t feel like leaving this comment of course I wouldn’t reblog it, because some of the things you said are just shitty. Maybe that’s why it doesn’t have more notes 🤷🏽‍♀️

Omfg thank you. I saw a few red flags in this point that totally went away from the main message.

I mean he may have branched off from the main point a bit but majority of this was true. Woman bash what men do on a regular I mean this isn’t a contest but this is the first time I’m seeing someone say all this about black woman, everyday you see some slander about how niggas ain’t shit is it wrong really to point out some of the things we find fucked up. We get generalized as ain’t shit niggas on a regular and a lot of you young ladies have no idea what that specific young man is like.

Point taken but also lets look at how he made sure to cover his own back when it came to not knowing if he should tell on his friend on not, but all the sudden he forgets to mention how the women supporting his shitty friend tweet didnt even know the backstory. If you make these post please do not contradict yourself or sugar coat some parts but leave other parts as if they are whole truths. Js. Women CAN be abusive trust me ik, but make sure your story is at least coherent.

I hear you but I mean did any of the girls on her Twitter ask the back story, you can’t say it’s a lie and that some not all woman jump at the chance to call niggas not shit it most likely is an experience in the past but all men suffer from that generalization. I don’t get how he covered his back if that be the case we wouldn’t have known if he had that little conflicting moral moment. You can’t tell me I’m wrong when I say you can scroll through your tumblr Twitter Instagram all that and you’ll see so many post to empower black woman and so many post on how y’all saying fuck niggas they all ain’t shit focus on yourself all that…this is just the vice versa everyone has their faults

black women on tumblr might be the weakest group and i’m a black woman. we will call black men every slanderous word in the dictionary and even make up some (most with no valid information or with the right information (i love how suddenly a black woman cares about “backstory” now)) but when we are called out, we bitch like there’s no tomorrow. weak as shit. i don’t know who raised these bitches or how but weak as fuck.

stop making excuses and do better. we constantly ask black men to do better and yet we can’t take any fucking direction from them on how we can do better. stop it! 

well what i highlighted here is how often, at least in my experience, women have gone on especially on social media to bash brothers even though they are the ones at fault. they do that because they know that there will be an automatic assumption of their innocence and a backing of their position with no demand to know backstory because the “niggas ain’t shit” is a generalization that sisters can count on no matter what. they know that they won’t be asked any questions, they won’t be doubted, no one is going to ask them if they cheated, no one is going to take a look at their behavior. they can just go out there and put it out there and i know they’re going to get automatic backing. and so i experienced firsthand and it change the way i view these memes, these posts with hundreds of thousands of likes shitting on brothers. completely change my change my view of that because i’ve always known there was something suspect about that but now i have personal evidence to support that suspicion. it’s a double standard and double standards exist to the benefit of the group putting the rule on the other group that they will not put on themselves. so yeah i see that i’m not the only one who finds it funny that is certainly a concern about knowing backstory but we all know no was asking for backstory details when there’s an opportunity to jump on the “niggas ain’t shit train.” that’s fact.

and so when you as a person ever call out the hypocrisy in those double standards you have to be prepared to be attacked and maligned. that’s just the way it’s going to be. it’s the same business when you’re black or a person of color and you call out the hypocrisy in the double standards exhibited through white privilege; white people are going to attack you because you’re attacking something that gives them a benefit. they will rationalize it in all sorts of ways but they realize that you were coming after something that gives them a leg up and they don’t appreciate you coming after it for fear they may lose that leg up. so the same thing happens whenever we talk about gender. so when you’re fighting against double standards, expect big pushback. if you’re black or a poc fighting against racial double standards, prepare for white people (and coons) to say you’re just looking for handouts, playing the victim and lazy. if you’re a guy fighting against gender double standards, anticipate that women will say you’re just hurt, hate women, are sexist, impotent and ignorant. why? because that’s a defense against someone coming for the benefit of the double standard.

and like i’ve always said i call out black men on their bullshit and i call out black women on their bullshit, only one group constantly complains and make excuses